I have been reading a lot about Women Empowerment and Gender
Equality in work place, so much is being spoken in support of Woman. But, I
have a serious question to ask, the Man population who blabber all these fancy
words, Do they really mean it.. I don’t think so.. I would not deny that there
would be a minor male population who would strong believe and stand by it. But
Majority of male population fakes it out. They think if they speak all these
fancy words would hop them enough limelight which they cray from heart.. From
inside, they can’t see a woman running a business or working in office earning
better than them or seeking their help in the daily domestic work.. Their Male
Ego gets hurt. Standard reply is “ My mother
has been doing all the households work, why can’t you manage”.. This chunk of
population wants a Sophisticated Maid other than a Soul Mate.. They accept you
to cook, clean house, wash their clothes and then manage you professional life,
which is no lesser stress less than theirs..
Are these men born with genetic fault or we train them?..
When I say We, it includes, Women(especially Mothers & Aunts), Men, Society, Environment everything. Our
family tries to imbibe in our DNA ever since we are born, and if you dare to
speak or stand for yourself, you are treated as an Arrogant Female. Anyway,
getting back to the main topic. If I have to draw a pie chart, only 0.1% of the
entire male population would genuinely support Women Empowerment & Gender
equality, Rest are Male Chauvinists with big fake empty EGO which does no good
to our society.. In North India, they have this typical culture where a girl
child is not allowed to touch feet as they consider it as a horrendous sin.
They have a justified reason that Girl are form of GODDESS DURGA. Fair enough!
But when this girl is married to another family, she is asked to touch feet of
each and every member of the new family, her husband would throw hands on her
and accepts her to have a Baby Boy. So is that after marriage the form of being
GODDESS DURGA changes to a Mandakini (sister of Ravana) whose nose was cut by
Lord RAM.. or GODDESS DURGA is not in favour of married woman, when she is
herself married to LORD SHIVA ,What is the bloody logic behind this.. Help me
understand..
It is a complete BULLSHIT and most
insensitive things which exists in this world.. When a girl is married, she
leaves her family to be with her SOUL MATE, but the in reality she misjudges the entire
Marriage thing. She forgets that her father has sold her without taking any
money in return rather giving away money( bribes) so that you can serve as a Sophisticated Maid
into your new family. If you can’t do your household thingies, society will pin
point your parents, as they did not teach you any work. Your educational values
hold no meaning the society.. You are not judged on the basis of merits, May
you are the EMPLOYEE OF THE MONTH, in you company, yet you remain worthless to you’re
the society as you don’t know how to do the house hold works.. Man treats their woman badly no matter how
talented and intelligent she may be, but for him, She is nothing but a full
time maid who would do all the households things, go office(bring money) and
then in the end satisfy him on the bed not even asking if she was satisfied in
the process. These Men who was blabber about Women Empowerment and Gender
Equality should start practising from their own home by giving due respect to
their wives,sisters & girlfriends, As it is said “CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME”..
So in short, Woman are subjected as Sophisticated Maid and not Soul Mate..
